Have you ever had a problem you simply couldn’t bear to face today? Or maybe even tomorrow?  Just the thought of accepting that the problem exists makes you shudder and shake? Don’t beat yourself up because you aren’t dealing with it right this second. Skirt the issue until you are ready to resolve it. And I don’t mean ignore it completely! Tonight, wear a soft skirt and give yourself permission to dance around your problem (and your pole). Ignore the problem (and your pole) when you want to. Or shake it when you need to.  Climb it. Kick it. Twirl around and around it. Float toward it as if some…