• Journal

    Shoulding is Shitty

    You should work out. You should write every day.  You should eat less.  You should eat less but more often.  You should meditate. You must do NaNoWriMo every year.  You should write what you know. You shouldn’t write erotica. You should do yoga everyday. We all have goals. We all have a deep abiding purpose that fills us with passion to do something more, be something more, or create something amazing to share with those we love (and perhaps the world).  We want to write, flow, stream words across the page, but we’re not exactly sure how to become that PERFECT WRITER in our mind.  The media, the magazines, and…

  • Dancing,  My Story,  Sensual Dancing

    Pajama Poppin Pole Party

    Sometimes your creative Muse is motivated, playful, filled with wild hip swaying, booty bumping energy.  Sometimes your Muse can’t wait to Dance, Dance, Dance.  Sometimes she has a love crazed hard-on (yes, I said it. Get over it.) to grab that pole and make the world beg for more.   And sometimes she couldn’t give a shit. Sometimes, she looks at that shiny vertical shaft of steel (or titanium, or brass, or chrome) and all she can think about is how cold it probably is right now.  How she’ll have to pull out the yoga mat to warm up.  How tired she is. Or how long it would take to change…

  • HowTo,  My Story,  Sensuality,  Sexy,  Technique

    Naked Inspiration, the Bare Essentials

    Today I was reminded of how critical it is to pay attention to all the stuff you actually give a shit about.  Otherwise you miss all the phenomenal experiences that life is trying to give you. (because sometimes it’s difficult to figure out what YOU care about when your boss, your peers, and the TV are demanding you do totally different things) So how do you know what is really important and what’s just bullshit? I started my day off by sharing this on Facebook: I’m going to quietly grumble in my cubicle this morning. :S (I couldn’t even manage to spell “grumble”) …and ended it by celebrating an evening…