• Journal

    Shoulding is Shitty

    You should work out. You should write every day.  You should eat less.  You should eat less but more often.  You should meditate. You must do NaNoWriMo every year.  You should write what you know. You shouldn’t write erotica. You should do yoga everyday. We all have goals. We all have a deep abiding purpose that fills us with passion to do something more, be something more, or create something amazing to share with those we love (and perhaps the world).  We want to write, flow, stream words across the page, but we’re not exactly sure how to become that PERFECT WRITER in our mind.  The media, the magazines, and…

  • Beauty,  Sexy

    Pole Cliques Suck Red Scrunchies!

    I’ve spent the last 6 months in a partial Pole coma.  I pulled back from the glittering visions of pole performance after pole performance.  I stopped going to conferences and competitions.  I stopped watching hours of pole dancing on youtube.  I stopped paying attention to who was opening up which studio where.   I also almost stopped teaching completely, although a couple of my die hard students refused to let me go.  (Thanks ladies, you know who you are) All because I didn’t want to deal with the intense drama anymore. I have felt so blessed to see the awesome art of pole dance grow and blossom from a fire…