
Defeat Your Dragons with Sex Appeal
Some days life just SUCKS. You try your absolute best, but the world keeps piling on the crap, the constraints, and the accidents of fate that simply aren’t going your way. Maybe you wore a short skirt to a party on a windy balcony, maybe you broke your favorite pair of heels on a cobblestone sidewalk, or maybe the sprinkler system came on and fried your laptop right before a huge client meeting.
Whatever difficulties you are having, it can feel as if the word “unlucky” is tattooed across your forehead. Everyone knows you are having a stream of bad luck and there is nothing you can do about it….. RIGHT?
Wrong. On unlucky days, pull your dragons out of the shadows and into the light. Show the world you aren’t afraid to make mistakes and discover something new about yourself and your world. Wear your accidents of fate, like a badge of honor that tells everyone you are finally LIVING instead of being afraid to share your true self. And then, laugh.
Laugh the whole day away. Bad shit is going to happen, so you might as well enjoy the experience, learn, and then laugh it off. If the wind blows up your skirt, act like Marilyn Monroe the whole night. If your heels break, go barefoot and ask the strongest, sexiest men to carry you. If your laptop gets fried, move the meeting to a poolside resort and throw your laptop in the water to get their attention (check your warranty first though). If you laugh and learn from your dragons, they will gracefully bow at your feet.
Give in to your playful, sensual side and simply ride the day out. Laugh until your sides hurt. Then go home and pole dance until you end up laying on the floor unable to move a muscle. Get it out of your system today and by tomorrow you’ll realize that your “unlucky tattoo” was actually an auspicious dragon of good fortune.
I had to dance for 30 minutes before I defeated my dragons, but it was worth every sweaty second. BTW, the two songs in this video are Milk by Garbage and Angel of Mine by Newtown Saints.
“Do a little dance, make a little love, get down tonight


10 Comments
Jennifer
Uh oh – sounds like one hell of a day must have prompted this post! 😉 Loved it! Definitely a great approach. Gorgeous, slinky dancing in the video, too!
Yannori
Thanks Jennifer! It was a crappy day, but I love to translate anything into a reason to dance 🙂
Nymphadora
I love love love this! I should have read it yesterday when the dragon was trying to defeat me. Now that I know how to slay him bring him on!
Yannori
@Nymphadora – I’m so glad 🙂
True ladies don’t need a knight in shining armor and his pointy lance to defeat our dragons, we need an 8 foot pole that’s 2 inches thick!
You’ve got him shaking in his scales now *wink*
Charge! LOL
Ruthann
I LOVE the tat girl,great pic of you because you look absolutely HAPPY!
I embrace dragons: they motivate me and I tap into their “dark energies” in hopes of finding something new and hopefully awesome to experience!
You’re as good as it gets!
HUGS!
Yannori
@Ruthann – Have I told you lately that I LOVE you! 🙂 I grew up with dragons and I always loved the dual meaning of dark danger & beautiful magic they embodied. I’m so glad you share in my wonder. xoxo to you sexy Mynx
Tasha
Wow. I was researching your lessons and youtube searched you. Then came to this blog. I am still in the middle of watching the video that goes with this. I had to stop myself from tearing up.
You are so right. I have been having a lot of dragonful days lately. I just got my pole and danced in clubs a few years ago. I don’t think I need to look any further for lessons. I am going to sign up for your lessons in the morning as it is already midnight where I am.
Thank you!
Yannori
@Tasha I’m so happy to share my love of sensual movement and pole dancing with as many woman as I can. Thank you for your lovely comment and please let me know if there is any topic or question you’d like to see on this site. I love to give my readers exactly what they want!
–Yannori
Charise
Brilliant. Simply brilliant. We ARE the magic! 🙂
Yannori
@Charise – Thankyou, and Yes YOU are!